Assalamualaikum

Is it okay to fall in love? I wonder it too.

Feelings are not something that we can control, but we can control our actions :) 

You will always have someone that you love, because it's your heart and your mind that choose a person based on their looks, action, words and behavior.

But relationship between boys and girls are not acceptable before marriage. Some might say who says dating isn't an option? But that isn't the rule of Allah. Of course it is impossible to not to talk with them, it is normal to talk because we all live together on this planet, but remember physical contact is to be avoided. 

Talking to parents is important which I haven't do so because my parents are super duper strict. If you're in a really good open relationship with your parents talk to them first. We can also go out with them, but make sure get a group of friends together to go with you. It doesn't have to be one on one. Don't give yourselves the option of committing zina. If you have good intentions remain strong. There is no harm in falling in love.

But, we have to remember that we will meet a lot of people, we will have different feelings, we will experience a lot of relationships. My advice is, live your life normally but remember that you value a lot, not any one can hear your sweet words, not any one can see your attractive features, not any one can touch you, be precious.

It can only be that person you chose yourself, the one that will love you dearly, the one that is willing to do anything for you, the one you chose as your husband. It's a great deal. think about it carefully. And know more about your religion.

Relationship like this usually have a mysterious ending or it will never end. That is why we take marriage seriously. We pray and ask Allah if it was a good decision. We observe our partners and see if we will be good together.

Assalamualaikum

Is it okay to fall in love? I wonder it too.

Feelings are not something that we can control, but we can control our actions :) 

You will always have someone that you love, because it's your heart and your mind that choose a person based on their looks, action, words and behavior.

But relationship between boys and girls are not acceptable before marriage. Some might say who says dating isn't an option? But that isn't the rule of Allah. Of course it is impossible to not to talk with them, it is normal to talk because we all live together on this planet, but remember physical contact is to be avoided. 

Talking to parents is important which I haven't do so because my parents are super duper strict. If you're in a really good open relationship with your parents talk to them first. We can also go out with them, but make sure get a group of friends together to go with you. It doesn't have to be one on one. Don't give yourselves the option of committing zina. If you have good intentions remain strong. There is no harm in falling in love.

But, we have to remember that we will meet a lot of people, we will have different feelings, we will experience a lot of relationships. My advice is, live your life normally but remember that you value a lot, not any one can hear your sweet words, not any one can see your attractive features, not any one can touch you, be precious.

It can only be that person you chose yourself, the one that will love you dearly, the one that is willing to do anything for you, the one you chose as your husband. It's a great deal. think about it carefully. And know more about your religion.

Relationship like this usually have a mysterious ending or it will never end. That is why we take marriage seriously. We pray and ask Allah if it was a good decision. We observe our partners and see if we will be good together.